I find this whole thread quite amusing really....in a nice dreamy kind of way. It's good to have fantasies about untold wealth, but I'm convinced the "struggle and sacrifice" necessarily required to actually turn that fantasy into reality might just change your end result.
In the past, having worked in some less than average countries and conditions.....think people existing in the baking desert in a cave.....I can confirm right now that what you all have accumulated currently (whatever your wealth level) in 'middle of the road Ozzie surburbia' is way beyond their wildest dreams.....and yet you haven't changed ??? I'm sure that's because ;
1. You don't use that frame of reference to compare your current wealth levels to.
2. You've seen mega-wealthy, via electronic media outlets behaving in a manner that you cannot afford as yet.
The ol' "whatever I want, whenever I want" goal which I don't get really.
Having attained a tad more wealth than a good proportion of people, and having associated with a few chaps and chapesses in the same boat, I suppose I'm in a position to say that what you've listed in your dream wishlist isn't actually what happens when you "arrive" at numbers to allow you to do that.
I suppose the next logical question to ask is why not ??
Cos I reckon you get caught up in the mechanism of wealth, with strong bonds and ties.....be they contractual or habitual.....and to tell you the honest truth, quite a bit of control and power is associated with the whole circus. All of those nasty little human traits that we all have but never admit to.
It's very difficult to suddenly reject a life of modest, frugal, saving, budgeting and investing and suddenly go "That's enough, I'm going to cash up, write a whopping great cheque to the ATO for (shudder to think) millions, go put my feet up in the Seychelles and lie on the beach for the next 40 years."
Frankly, I do not know or have even read about one person who has done that. One seems to carry on accumulating and leading a half @rsed normal domestic life.....it doesn't change all that much.
When you are at station # 3, I can imagine looking up at station # 6 must look so inviting and sexy.....where all of life's troubles melt away and life is bliss. To the people back at station # 1, where you are right now seems like heaven on a stick. Of course, to people currently at station # 8, looking back at station # 6 seems to be very average indeed. Where's the right level ??
How much is enough ?? That's the biggy. I reckon, just by human nature and our primeval urge to better ourselves, I reckon nirvana is about 3 stations above where we currently sit. She's a moving target, cos humans do that.
Personally, I envy the folk who have been able to answer this big question honestly, and even moreso those folks whose answer is a normal, reasonable or modest number.
I'm still coming to grips with it....but believe I have reached my plateau....for a while anyway, so it's been a revelation to figure out when the goal has been achieved. It's not easy.
Anyway, that's what I've observed so far on the journey. In 5 or so years time, I'll probably think what I just wrote then was a complete crock....but it'll have to do me for now.