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That is wonderful that they were able to share those memories with you and cared so much about your Dad to give their details to the mortuary. As I said before, take things slowly, enlist the aid of your family and friends (and my offer still stands) and arrange things. For his belongings...

Jim, I need to do this myself. If you have any pointers can you PM me? Thanks

Dave, I'm guessing that going forwards from this the Mortuary will want to release your father to you to arrange a funeral etc. Don't rush this, don't feel pressured to take this on before you are ready. You are young and this is a huge shock. Talk to your Mum and Dad and enlist their help...

Sorry to hear it Dave and that it's knocking you around understandably. Reaching out to an estranged member of the family is rough as it's such a double edge sword - did they not reach back for fear of being rejected by you, do you not reach forwards for fear of being rejected by them. We...