So I have been with my girl for over 4 years. We met at work (no longer work together). We have lived together for the last 2 years in a house we bought jointly. We have discussed marriage, kids, our future and what not both directly/indirectly and have also discussed my asking the question (or more like getting hassled for taking so long ).
For the last 12 months or so she has had her heart set on a 'Hearts on Fire' diamond ring from Grahams. It is a particular brand of jewelery that is exclusive to Grahams (in Australia). We went into the store and they gave us the booklet and showed her the rings and pulled out this little hand scope thing to put over the ring to see how great the sparkle is rolleyes. She liked one that was $1799 at the time. She has given me the line 'Don't bother asking the question if it's not a Hearts on Fire' in a semi-joking fashion.
I have since been into the store and had another look and the prices have gone up (due to US/AU exchange rate according to the store), the $1799 ring is now $2150 (.3 carats) and I had a good look at it and to be honest I don't think it's that nice a ring (diamonds don't go as far around the ring and they are small). They had another one, which was a similar design, but larger diamonds that went further around the ring for $4175 (.75 carats).
I had a look in Shiels and they also have an 'exclusive' rolleyes range called Flawless cut, which appears to me to be much better value. For a design very similar to the $4175 ring at Grahams I can get one for $1800 (It's only .5 carats and not quite as dazzling, but much nicer than the $2150 HoF ring). For $4175 at Shiels I could buy her something that would blow her away.
Here is the conundrum. I don't really want to spend $4k on a ring (I have the cash, I just can't justify it). I had initially thought around $1500, but I would be comfortable spending a little bit more $1800-2200. I could get her the $2150 ring from Grahams, but to be honest I don't think anyone would be that impressed with it, even if she told them it was a Hearts on Fire. The $1800 ring in my eyes is the nicer ring, the better deal and would impress her more if she didn't know which store it was from.
I was thinking I could get the Shiels ring and put it in a Grahams HoF box, but I wouldn't want to get caught .
Any thoughts?
For the last 12 months or so she has had her heart set on a 'Hearts on Fire' diamond ring from Grahams. It is a particular brand of jewelery that is exclusive to Grahams (in Australia). We went into the store and they gave us the booklet and showed her the rings and pulled out this little hand scope thing to put over the ring to see how great the sparkle is rolleyes. She liked one that was $1799 at the time. She has given me the line 'Don't bother asking the question if it's not a Hearts on Fire' in a semi-joking fashion.
I have since been into the store and had another look and the prices have gone up (due to US/AU exchange rate according to the store), the $1799 ring is now $2150 (.3 carats) and I had a good look at it and to be honest I don't think it's that nice a ring (diamonds don't go as far around the ring and they are small). They had another one, which was a similar design, but larger diamonds that went further around the ring for $4175 (.75 carats).
I had a look in Shiels and they also have an 'exclusive' rolleyes range called Flawless cut, which appears to me to be much better value. For a design very similar to the $4175 ring at Grahams I can get one for $1800 (It's only .5 carats and not quite as dazzling, but much nicer than the $2150 HoF ring). For $4175 at Shiels I could buy her something that would blow her away.
Here is the conundrum. I don't really want to spend $4k on a ring (I have the cash, I just can't justify it). I had initially thought around $1500, but I would be comfortable spending a little bit more $1800-2200. I could get her the $2150 ring from Grahams, but to be honest I don't think anyone would be that impressed with it, even if she told them it was a Hearts on Fire. The $1800 ring in my eyes is the nicer ring, the better deal and would impress her more if she didn't know which store it was from.
I was thinking I could get the Shiels ring and put it in a Grahams HoF box, but I wouldn't want to get caught .
Any thoughts?