ex signed her name of title under natural love and affection

Well after speaking to lawyers it seems the only way to 'protect' what I have fought for over the past decade for my children is through my will. So that is the way i'm going to do it. Thank you to everyone for their advice and I hope everything in life works out for you all

you have either misunderstood the advice you got or the person you spoke to is an idiot. either way speak to someone else
 
My info is old but I think is still be valid. If you have the kids living with you the split of assets would be 70% to you 30% her, but you may have to pay maintenance to her if she cant get work and you earn more than her. If the kids are over 11 - 12yo their wishes will be taken into account. Over 15yo they can state what they want to do. Whatever happened before you divorce/do your property settlement wont be taken into account (ie you supported her, she worked, didnt work etc. doesnt matter). If you get a divorce, you only have a year to do the property settlement then any division of assets must be agreed to by both of you. Re-read that carefully. A year goes by very quickly, especially with a new boyfriend on the scene. Fact: After divorce and no property settlement finalised within the year, if you havent been able to reach agreement re division of assets, ie selling the house and giving her a share, etc. she cant force you to, it must be agreed by both. If she agrees to sell the house and you then cant agree on division of assets it will go into a trust account until you both agree

Well, all this is from actual experience! If you are not divorced whoever is earning more can be made to pay for maintenance of the other, particularly if that other is sick or incapacitated. Whoever minds the kids the most of the time will get the most of the settlement. If she has signed the house over to you I cant see how she could sue you for it, particularly as the kids are with you all the time. I would imagine the property settlement division would apply to defacto too
 
Well, all this is from actual experience! If you are not divorced whoever is earning more can be made to pay for maintenance of the other, particularly if that other is sick or incapacitated. Whoever minds the kids the most of the time will get the most of the settlement. If she has signed the house over to you I cant see how she could sue you for it, particularly as the kids are with you all the time. I would imagine the property settlement division would apply to defacto too
What happened in your situation is not what will happen in somebody else's. The Family Law Act 1975 requires the Court to look at a whole bunch of factors, and what I (and I suspect others) reacted to in your response was the suggestion of something as formulaic as "If you have the kids living with you the split of assets would be 70% to you 30% her". It doesn't work like that.

And now you're saying "If she has signed the house over to you I cant see how she could sue you for it", despite multiple lawyers stating that the names on the title are irrelevant for family law purposes.

Please don't present misinformation as fact, or particular outcomes as universal outcomes. It hinders MuikMoo rather than helping.
 
https://www.aussielegal.com.au/foru...e_Consent_Orders_Binding_Financial_Agreements

Legal forum on the net with big community inc. some lawyers. Much more likely to get a handle on the situation there.

More likely to get even more confused there. I don't get why people think you can find proper legal answers online.

Its fine to get information or to get a general understanding of things, but its like trying to skip out on seeing the doctor - fine for a cold or a cough, but ridiculously stupid for something like a major illness or surgery.
 
I wasn't suggesting you would get free individual actual lawyer information there. I wasn't suggesting it as a substitute for visiting a lawyer for specific case advice.

I was suggesting that if you need family law general advice you'll be more likely to get it from a forum specific to family law than from a property investors forum.

FYI the forum does have practicing lawyers dropping in from time to time and also people with lots of personal experience which they share and discuss. Much like Somersoft has a few professionals in various fields plus a lot of well infomed amateurs. It's basically the legal counterpart forum of this property investors forum.

Some of the legal advice I read here is also inaccurate, which is why I suggested a specialist forum. Esp w.r.t. family law.
 
I wasn't suggesting you would get free individual actual lawyer information there. I wasn't suggesting it as a substitute for visiting a lawyer for specific case advice.

I was suggesting that if you need family law general advice you'll be more likely to get it from a forum specific to family law than from a property investors forum.

FYI the forum does have practicing lawyers dropping in from time to time and also people with lots of personal experience which they share and discuss. Much like Somersoft has a few professionals in various fields plus a lot of well infomed amateurs. It's basically the legal counterpart forum of this property investors forum.

Some of the legal advice I read here is also inaccurate, which is why I suggested a specialist forum. Esp w.r.t. family law.

Fair enough. I agree it is still a good forum and I have now made several posts myself.
 
If you are worried about the safety of your kids I would recommend making a report to child safety.

As yet the whole "my kids don't feel safe there so I'm not going to give the mother access to the children" argument won't wash in my experience.

There needs to be evidence that they are not safe there. Maybe you have some? If so you make a report.

I would also recommend contacting the Family Relationship Advice Line. They deal with family break ups and custody issues, etc... and can refer to mediation and give some legal advice.

Family relationship advice line
Scope NAT
Phone 18 00050321
Opening Hours Mon-Fri 8am-8pm, Sat 10am-4pm
Web Site http://www.familyrelationships.gov.au/

If you want some advice on the general parenting matters I recommend your local perenting line: Parenting Sa, Parentline QLD/NT, Parentline NSW, etc...

Good luck!
 
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